The holidays are magical… and absolutely chaotic. Between client deadlines, holiday sales, school events, family gatherings, and trying to be the magic-maker for everyone around you, it’s easy to feel like you’re drowning in tinsel and to-do lists.

As a creative entrepreneur and mom, I’ve been there. I’ve burned out trying to do it all. And honestly, that burnout was the wake-up call I needed to start setting real, solid boundaries that protect my time, my energy, and my sanity during the holiday season.

So, if you’re heading into the holidays feeling like you need to clone yourself just to get through December, this one’s for you. Let’s talk about the boundaries that have genuinely changed the season for me and my clients when it comes to balancing business and family during the most wonderful and hectic time of year.

1. Set Clear Work Hours 

This is the boundary I set as a direct result of my own burnout, and it’s been a game-changer.

As a creative entrepreneur working from home, the line between “work time” and “family time” can get blurry fast. Add in the fact that so much of our work happens on our phones (Voxer messages, emails, notifications popping in constantly) and it’s ridiculously easy for work to bleed into every corner of your life.

During the holidays, this balancing act gets even trickier. 

Family obligations are at a level 100, and depending on your business model, work might be too. 

• Maybe you’re fulfilling holiday orders and sales are flying in. 
• Maybe you’re trying to work ahead so you and your team can take some much-needed time off. 
• Maybe your clients are in full-on end-of-year panic mode trying to wrap everything up.

Whatever it is, defining your specific holiday work hours and your specific family hours is one of the most powerful boundaries you can set.

Here’s how I make it work:

I’m a big fan of time blocking my calendar. I use time blocks to schedule everything from work tasks and family time, to my own self-care. Then I communicate those hours clearly to my clients, my team, and my family so everyone knows what to expect.

This lets me step away from work and be fully present with my family during non-work hours, and it helps me get some serious tasks done during the work hours that I need to be productive.

COO Tip: Your holiday hours might be different from your regular work hours, and that’s totally okay (in fact, it’s to be expected). Think about this ahead of the holidays and set those expectations early.

I scale back my work hours in December. I have that conversation with all of my clients well in advance. 

I’ve also learned to dial back my own business side of things to a minimum during the holidays. For example, I make sure that all my blogs and social posts for December are pre-written and pre-scheduled. So it’s really just a matter of showing up, serving my clients, and then getting out and getting back to family stuff during the holidays.

Being aware of those dialed-back hours well in advance means I can plan for them and prep before things get super crazy.

Now, I know every business is different. I close between Christmas and New Year’s. I have clients who do the same, and others who close for two or three weeks over the holidays. 

That being said, I also have clients who need to extend their business hours during the holidays because that’s their bread and butter time. Many of these business owners lean into family time over the summer instead.

It really depends on your business model and the seasonality of the creative work you do. But thinking about what those hours should be ahead of time, setting them, communicating expectations around them, and then sticking to them? That’s the key to protecting yourself over the holidays.

2. Delegate, Delegate, Delegate

As you know, I love a good delegation strategy. And honestly, anything you can delegate during busy times, you should. That way, your attention can stay focused on the most important things.

Obviously, this isn’t always 100% possible for everyone or every circumstance, but think creatively about what help you can enlist:

For your business:

• Consider hiring part-time holiday help (think about how stores bring on seasonal workers… you can do the same)
• If they’re old enough, you might even recruit your kids to help with things like packing up holiday gifts or writing holiday cards
• Bring in family or friends to help where they can

For your personal life:

• Outsource things like gift wrapping or meal prep
• Hire cleaners to help keep your house in order (I do this to prep for all the hosting we do, and it’s a lifesaver)

COO Tip: Use tech wisely and to your advantage. Things like ChatGPT and AI assistance can make a real difference this year versus other years when they weren’t as developed. Always look at what you, yourself, absolutely have to do versus what you can potentially get off your plate and still get done well.

The key is to be thoughtful about what and how you’re delegating. If your business doesn’t get crazy busy during the holidays, don’t hire unnecessary help. But if it does, give yourself permission to seek support so you can focus on the creative side of your business and enjoy the family time too.

3. Create No-Work Zones

I touched on this a little in the first boundary, but I think no-work zones deserve their own spotlight because they’ve been so helpful for me.

For me, creating no-work zones means both physical spaces and time-based boundaries.

Physical no-work zones:

I choose to do all of my work in my office. When I’m in my office, it’s a trigger in my head that I am working. It’s also a signal to my family that I am working and getting stuff done (gotta love a closed door).

My family life happens outside of that space. I don’t take my laptop to the dining room table or the kitchen table and sit there getting work done. I don’t do it on the couch in the living room, especially during crazy times like the holidays.

This helps me draw a clear physical boundary between being present as a mom and being present as the CEO of my business.

Time-based no-work zones:

For me, my “no-work zone” starts when I’m getting my kids off the bus from school. I usually wrap up work, and I’m often Voxering clients on my walk to the bus stop, but when my kids come off the bus, I shut my work down. I don’t check my Voxer, I don’t check my emails for the remainder of the night during school days.

Weekends can also be no-work zones. And during the holidays, there are going to be other times when that becomes an important boundary too.

Setting these boundaries really does help you unplug and recharge without feeling guilty. It also helps you genuinely recharge so you’re not sitting there feeling like you should be doing something else. If you’re not physically in your work space AND you’re not time-wise in that space to be doing work, it’s okay to let it go.

And honestly, I think that’s a really important thing to prevent burnout. Because for the longest time, I did not have that boundary, and I did burn out.

4. Communicate Expectations to Your Clients, Family, and Team

Let them all know what your holiday availability looks like ahead of time.

Obviously, your clients are the most important from a business perspective. They’re the ones paying you for your time and expertise. 

On the other hand, your family is most important from a personal perspective. 

And your team relies on you, so they need to know upfront so they can plan accordingly too.

Setting clear expectations for deadlines and communication helps you avoid last-minute stress while still delivering great work.

Here’s what I do:

Every year, I send an email to all of my clients that says something like: 

“As a reminder, I am going to be off from Christmas Eve through New Year’s Day. Anything that needs to be done ahead of time, please make me aware by December 15th so I can be sure to schedule it in.”

Even if they don’t have everything ready yet, I need them to tell me it’s coming so I can block that time in my calendar, plan accordingly, and get them what they need before I sign off.

This is especially important if you’re scaling back your hours or taking additional time off, whether that’s for your kids’ school events, family gatherings, or travel.

Being upfront about when you’re offline or when you’re scaling back is super important to your clients, your family, and your team. It helps everyone plan accordingly and work together through the holiday season.

5. Set Me-Time Boundaries

It is so easy to lose yourself in the holidays when you’re the magic-maker for everyone and everything.

You’re creating magic for your kiddos and your family. You’re making the plans, putting together the holiday cards (after coordinating the photo shoot), baking all the things, coordinating the family get-togethers, and let’s be real, probably hosting them. You’re making sure everything’s ready for school events, and you’re still showing up for your clients and your team in the best way possible.

It’s so easy for you to fall off the priority list and feel completely burnt out and overwhelmed during the holidays.

Here’s the truth: Taking time to take care of yourself is not optional. It’s essential.

Block that in your calendar throughout the entire holiday season. Me time might look like:

• A solo walk around the block
• Journaling time
• Rest (yes, it IS productive)
• Baking your favorite holiday cookies (if baking makes you feel good)
• Sitting with a cup of hot cocoa watching a Hallmark movie after the kids go to bed or on a Saturday morning

Whatever it is, make sure you’re putting some time aside for it. Make it a priority. Communicate to your family that it is non-negotiable. 

And if your me-time falls during business hours, let your team or clients know you’re unavailable during that time. You don’t owe anyone an explanation of what you’re doing, just that you’re blocked off.

Then make sure you follow through and do it (don’t get distracted or derailed) so you can recharge, maintain your creative energy, and still show up for your clients, your family, and your team in the way that you’ve envisioned.

6. Limit Your Holiday Commitments (Both Business and Social)

There will be a million invites coming in for everything.

I am somebody who gets FOMO and loves saying yes to absolutely everything. But I have learned that sometimes no’s are much more powerful, and saying no can be totally okay.

In my family, we also celebrate several birthdays during December. It’s my son’s birthday, my niece’s and nephew’s birthday, and my dad’s birthday. So, it’s always, always, always crazy busy during December and during the holiday season in general.

Knowing it’s okay to say “No, I can’t come to that brunch with the moms from school” or “I’m sorry, I can’t come to the potluck, but maybe I can stop by for dessert” is so freeing.

It’s okay to decline invites.

I think about this much the same way I think about work commitments: 

If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a no. 

Because you can’t be in two places at once, and you can’t stretch yourself too thin. You don’t want to run yourself ragged and end up sick for the holidays.

There are lots and lots and lots of holiday gatherings, both personal and professional. So it’s more than okay to limit what you commit to and prioritize the ones that mean the most to you personally, align with your business goals, bring you joy, and mean the most to your family. Focus on building the relationships that really matter in your life.

That creates room for both business success and holiday joy with your family.

7. Use Tech to Streamline Your Workflow (and Set Boundaries Around It)

If you’ve been part of my community for long, you probably know I love a good automation. And honestly, anything you don’t need to do manually (anything you can streamline or automate) you 100% should.

I encourage all of my clients to use tech as a way to set a boundary for yourself and reduce the time you’re unnecessarily spending on your phone or computer during the holiday season.

I love this strategy for social media in particular. I’m someone who will pop on to make a post and suddenly find myself scrolling mindlessly without meaning to. That time adds up fast and eats into my personal time and mental health, especially during the holidays when I really don’t need the distraction or negativity I might see online.

My solution: Planning ahead and using tech to schedule things.

Schedule…

• posts,
• emails,
• and anything else you can schedule out. 

Scheduling with automation tools is such a great way to avoid going down that slippery slope of losing days, hours, momentum, energy, or even happiness in the black hole of the internet.

Another strategy I use: I’ve set time limits on my own devices for any social platforms and other apps that are time sucks. I have it set so I only get an hour a day to be on socials (and that includes work time). Then it pops up and says my time’s up.

Now, I can override it if I have to, but it’s a really good reminder. And honestly, I’m thinking about popping that down to only half an hour a day during the holidays. It’s a really good reminder to not get sucked in and end up mindlessly scrolling away the day.

8. Be Flexible, But Firm with Yourself

Boundaries are wonderful, but we don’t live in a vacuum. Life can and will happen. And especially when you are a mom, a creative, and an entrepreneur, you need some flexibility.

You have to give yourself grace when things don’t go as planned.

Maybe a client has an emergency that pops up and needs your attention. Maybe a school event slips through the cracks and you didn’t realize it, and suddenly you have to reschedule a meeting or two to get there. Maybe a kid’s project pops up that takes more time than you thought. Maybe an opportunity comes up (personal or professional) and you want to be able to take advantage of it.

Allowing some wiggle room for family obligations, creative spurts, business commitments, and inspiration is okay. 

Just be really, really clear on your core priorities, your core values, and your definition of success. Use those as your measuring stick for when you will and won’t be more flexible. Let that guide your decisions and help you navigate it all.

The Holidays Don’t Have To Mean Burnout

With the right boundaries in place (and the commitment to stick to them) you can show up fully for your business, your family, and yourself.

It’s not about being picture-perfect all the time. It’s about being intentional. And honestly, that makes all the difference.

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